friend or love

Someone told me to start blogging again. and I enjoy it because I can say anything I want. thanks to him :)

well, some people would say "keep your feeling, let her happy with her choice", other would say "tell her, she needs to know, you need to know her  feeling". lol. oh my, accidentally I'm talking about my last post :D I'm start thinking that my life is only about the difference -_-
well, I think we all need to know about everything, especially about love. what if we already fall with someone and suddenly they never like us ? isn't that hurt so bad ?

I choose to know myself if someone we like doesn't like us, rather than if our friends told us, or even worst, they suddenly having relationship with others :( but for real, that's not my position right now. I just confused. well, have no idea what to say.